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My five selves are physical, intellectual, social, emotional and spiritual. My physical self is quite healthy because I fulfill the requirements of the FITT principle which represents frequency,intensity, time and type. My intellectual self is interesting because I am mainly right-brained which means that I tend to use my creativity more than mu mathematical skills. I am also visual learned which is connected to me being right-brained. MY social self consists os friends, family and my sorroundings. I spend most of my time at home with my family. Whenever Im with my friends, I observe their behaviours and listens to their opinions. I am more of independent type of person. Being with different people has influenced me into appreciating different cultures and beliefs. I have learned things that have now been incorporated with my own set of beliefs and values. I greatly value freedom of thought,friends and family. My emotional self deals with feelings and my ability to handle the demands of life. The spiritual self is all about my beliefs,values,religion and my life philosophies. By satisfying the needs of all five selves, the result can be holistic wellness which is the ability to feel good about myself and others.

what a question to ponder! i have tried writing this essay many times and have realized that this is a difficult topic. '' is it possible to love someone too much?'' if you look at the question you first muct define what love is and what it means to you before you can determine if it is actually possible to love someone too much.

the dictionary defines love as '' profoundly tender, a passionate affection for another person''. in my opinion, to love someone is to care not onle about them as a person but also about their well being. you can love a person even if that individual does not feel the same about you, or if the person just doesnt understand what you are feeling this way towards him or her. its like when youre a little kid and your parents tell you all the stuff not to touch, not to do and they keep on reminding you over and over again. theyre reminding you constantly, not to get to your nerves, but because they dont want you to get hurt. they love you and because of this strong feeling of love, they want to make sure you are safe.

to love someone is to have such strong feelings, so deeply felt that your life would not be complete or the same without them. you would do anything in the world to be with them and youwill do absolutely everything for them because it feels good and right. this reminds me of a song by ''brian adams'', EVERYTHING I DO, I DO IT FOR YOU. he sings of a strong love in this song. a love that everything he does makes hime feels so good and it feels good because he is doing everything for her, the one he loves.

sometimes love means that for every waking moment you want to be with that person, having them by your side. when youre in love everything you do feels better and easier because there is someone there with you and for you. some people may say that being there every waking moment is too much but it feels good and right then why not? you may not be doing anything but as long as you are with them it feels right.

love can make you don things you wouldnt normally do.

also when youre in love, when your loved one is hurt you hurt. when she is in pain you are in pain. you are in pain because sometimes there is nothing you can do for them. it is hard to see someone you love hurt or in pain.

in conclusion i would like to say that i do not believe that it is possible to love someone too much. love is somethng everyone feels at one time ior another in their lives. benjamin franklin once said '' if you would be loved, love and be loveable''.

it seems much too difficult to fully love someone so i must say that it is impossible to love someone too much. since love is unique for everyone hos is one able to love too much?

i think love makes someone a better, more complete person. thus it seems unreasonable that anyone in love, regardless of how much; can be too much in love.

and remember....

it is better to have loved and lost that not to have loved at all...

What Inspires You?

What Inspires You?